The Answer
Ask early, listen for specificity, document privately, connect daily work to the why explicitly, revisit annually, and never weaponize it. The why is a tool for support.
Overview
Every rep has a ‘why’ that is more specific and more durable than ‘I want to make money.’
Tapping into someone’s why is not manipulation; it’s basic respect.
Reps who feel that connection work harder, stay longer, and bring more of themselves to the work.
Steps
- Ask the question early. ‘What does success at this job buy you in your life over the next 2-3 years?’
- Listen for specificity.
- Document it. Don’t share it without permission.
- Connect daily work to the why explicitly.
- Revisit annually. People’s whys evolve.
- Use the why ethically.
- Share your own why. Reciprocity matters.
Pro Tip
Write each rep’s stated why on the back of a notecard in your desk. Glance at it before every 1:1.
Watch Out
Don’t weaponize the why. The why is a tool for support, not pressure.
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